Today’s teens are totally stressed. Based on the self-help classic, The Relaxation and Stress Reduction Workbook, this evidence-based guide will help you develop a game plan for reducing stress so you can focus on reaching your goals.
Are you feeling stressed out? You aren’t alone. Between school, tests, friendships, dating, the latest drama on social media, college applications, and a bunch of confusing physical changes, it’s no wonder that stress is a major mental health issue for many of today’s teens. The good news is that there are simple ways you can reduce your stress and reach your goals. This workbook will show you how.
With The Relaxation and Stress Reduction Workbook for Teens, you’ll learn to understand the underlying causes of your stress. You’ll discover practical mindfulness and breathing techniques to help you calm your mind and body in moments of worry and anxiety. You’ll also find tips for moving past “what ifs” and “shoulds,” strategies for managing negative thoughts and emotions, and tools to help you develop your own personalized plan for dealing with stress.
If you’re ready to move past stress and worry and start focusing on your bright future, this workbook has everything you need to get started today.
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|Publisher:||New Harbinger Publications|
|Product dimensions:||7.90(w) x 9.90(h) x 0.50(d)|
|Age Range:||8 - 12 Years|
About the Author
Michael A. Tompkins, PhD, ABPP, is codirector of the San Francisco Bay Area Center for Cognitive Therapy; assistant clinical professor at the University of California, Berkeley; and a diplomate and founding fellow of the Academy of Cognitive Therapy. Tompkins specializes in the treatment of anxiety disorders and obsessive-compulsive spectrum disorders in adults, adolescents, and children. He is author or coauthor of numerous articles on cognitive behavioral therapy (CBT) and related topics, as well as seven books, including three books published by New Harbinger Publications: Digging Out, OCD: A Guide for the Newly Diagnosed, and Anxiety and Avoidance. Tompkins serves on the advisory board of Magination Press, the children’s press of the American Psychological Association. He is a certified supervisor and trainer for the Beck Institute for Cognitive Behavior Therapy and the Academy of Cognitive Therapy. Tompkins has been featured in The New York Times, The Wall Street Journal, on NPR, and has presented over 250 workshops, lectures, and keynote addresses on CBT and related topics.Jonathan R. Barkin, PsyD, is a licensed clinical psychologist, partner at the San Francisco Bay Area Center for Cognitive Therapy, and assistant clinical professor at the University of California, Berkeley. Barkin has extensive experience in the treatment of severe anxiety disorders. He specializes in the treatment of anxiety disorders and obsessive-compulsive spectrum disorders in children, teens, and adults. Barkin presents lectures and workshops to professionals in the San Francisco Bay Area. Foreword writer Matthew McKay, PhD, is a professor at the Wright Institute in Berkeley, CA. He has authored or coauthored numerous books, including The Relaxation and Stress Reduction Workbook, Self-Esteem, Thoughts and Feelings, When Anger Hurts, and ACT on Life Not on Anger. McKay received his PhD in clinical psychology from the California School of Professional Psychology, and specializes in the cognitive behavioral treatment of anxiety and depression. He lives and works in the greater San Francisco Bay Area
Table of Contents
Foreword vii To Teens Reading This Workbook ix Section I You Say You’re Stressin’ but What Does That Mean? Activity 1. Your Sources of Stress 2 Activity 2. How You Cope with Stress 6 Activity 3. Creating Your Game Plan 10 Activity 4. Keeping a Stress Diary 13 Section II Relaxing Your Stressed-Out Body Activity 5. Slow Deep Breathing 20 Activity 6. Progressive Muscle Relaxation 25 Activity 7. Shifting into Automatic Relaxation 29 Section III Focusing Your Attention to Relax Your Stressed-Out Mind Activity 8. Meditation 34 Activity 9. Mindfulness: Five-Senses Awareness 38 Activity 10. Visualization 42 Section IV Working Your Way Through Worry Activity 11. Your Sources of Worry 46 Activity 12. Your Thinking Mistakes 51 Activity 13. The Key Question: Where’s the Evidence? 54 Activity 14. Overthrowing the Tyranny of “Should” 58 Activity 15. Following the Path of Value 62 Section V Working Your Way Through Fear Activity 16. Building a Plan to Work Your Way Through Fear 66 Activity 17. Building Your Act-Brave Ladder 70 Activity 18. Putting Your Working-Your-Way-Through-Fear Plan to the Test 75 Activity 19. Imagining Your Way Through Fear 79 Section VI Solving the Problems in Your Life So That You Don’t Stress About Them Activity 20. Identifying the Problem (and That’s Not Always Easy) 82 Activity 21. Brainstorming Possible Solutions and Keeping an Open Mind 85 Activity 22. Examining the Pluses and Minuses and Deciding What to Try First 89 Activity 23. The Power of Constructive Worry 94 Section VII Communicating Clearly and Saying No Activity 24. Clear Communication Begins with Good Listening 98 Activity 25. Clear Communication Includes I-messages 102 Activity 26. Clear Communication Sends the Correct Message 106 Activity 27. Four Steps to Saying No 109 Section VIII Putting It off Just Heaps It on Activity 28. Breaking It Down to Move Things Along 114 Activity 29. Cutting a Corner to Move Things Along 117 Activity 30. Procrastinating Less to Stress Less 120 Section IX Managing Stress That Angers You So You Can Manage Anger That Stresses You Activity 31. Your Sources of Anger 126 Activity 32. Identifying Your Anger Stages 131 Activity 33. Using Coping Thoughts and Actions to Cool Down 135 Activity 34. Creating Your Anger Management Plan and Putting It to the Test 139 Section X Eating Right, Eating Well—Just Try Not to Eat to Calm Down Activity 35. Your Eating Right, Eating Well Profile 144 Activity 36. Developing Your Eating Right, Eating Well Plan 147 Section XI Exercising Your Way to Less Stress Activity 37. Selecting the Best Exercise for You 152 Activity 38. Developing Your Exercise Plan 155 Section XII Space Matters: Creating a Calm Environment Activity 39. Creating a Calming Space 162 Activity 40. Harnessing the Power of Your Calming Space 166 Wrapping Up 168 Acknowledgments 169
Tompkins and Barkin reside in Oakland, CA; McKay resides in the greater San Francisco Bay Area.