The 158-Pound Marriage

The 158-Pound Marriage

by John Irving


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“Irving looks cunningly beyond the eye-catching gyrations of the mating dance to the morning-after implications.”—The Washington Post

The darker vision and sexual ambiguities of this sensual, ironic tale about a ménage a quatre in a New England university town foreshadow those of The World According to Garp; but this very trim and precise novel is a marked departure from the author's generally robust, boisterous style. Though Mr. Irving's cool eye spares none of his foursome, he writes with genuine compassion for the sexual tests and illusions they perpetrate on each other; but the sexual intrigue between them demonstrates how even the kind can be ungenerous, and even the well-intentioned, destructive.

“One of the most remarkable things about John Irving's first three novels, viewed from the vantage of The World According to Garp, is that they can be read as one extended fictional enterprise. . . . The 158-Pound Marriage is as lean and concentrated as a mine shaft.”—Terrence Des Pres

“Deft, hard-hitting . . . What Irving demonstrates beautifully is that a one-to-one relationship is more demanding than a free-for-all.”—The New York Times Book Review

Product Details

ISBN-13: 9780345417961
Publisher: Random House Publishing Group
Publication date: 06/28/1997
Edition description: Reprint
Pages: 176
Sales rank: 818,625
Product dimensions: 5.48(w) x 8.23(h) x 0.48(d)

About the Author

John Irving has been nominated for a National Book Award three times—winning once, in 1980, for the novel The World According to Garp. In 1992, Mr. Irving was inducted into the National Wrestling Hall of Fame in Stillwater, Oklahoma. In 2000, he won the Oscar for Best Adapted Screenplay for The Cider House Rules—a film with seven Academy Award nominations.



Date of Birth:

March 2, 1942

Place of Birth:

Exeter, New Hampshire


B.A., University of New Hampshire, 1965; also studied at University of Vienna; M.F.A., Iowa Writers' Workshop, 1967

Read an Excerpt

The Angel Called
“The Smile of Reims”

My wife, Utchka (whose name I sometime ago shortened to Utch), could teach patience to a time bomb. With some luck, she has taught me a little. Utch learned patience under what we might call duress. She was born in Eichbüchl, Austria – a little village outside the proletarian town of Wiener Neustadt, which is an hour’s drive from Vienna – in 1938, the year of Anschluss. When she was three, her father was killed as a Bolshevik saboteur. It is unproven that he was a Bolshevik, but he was a saboteur. By the end of the war, Wiener Neustadt would become the largest landing field in Europe, and the unwilling site of the German Messerschmitt factory. Utch’s father was killed in 1941 when he was caught in the act of blowing up Messerschmitts on the runway in Wiener Neustadt.

The local SS Standarte of Wiener Neustadt paid a visit to Utch’s mother in Eichbüchl after Utch’s father had been caught and killed. The SS men said they’d come to alert the village to the “seed of betrayal” which obviously ran thick in Utch’s family. They told the villagers to watch Utch’s mother very closely, to make sure she wasn’t a Bolshevik like her late husband. Then they raped Utch’s mother and stole from the house a wooden cuckoo clock which Utch’s father had bought in Hungary. Eichbüchl is very close to the Hungarian border, and the Hungarian influence can be seen everywhere.

Utch’s mother was raped again, several months after the SS left, by some of the village menfolk who, when questioned about their assault, claimed they were following instructions of the SS: watching Utch’s mother very closely, to make sure she wasn’t a Bolshevik. They were not charged with a crime.

In 1943, when Utch was five, Utch’s mother lost her job in the library of the monastery in nearby Katzelsdorf. It was suggested that she might be foisting degenerate books on the young. Actually, she was guilty of stealing books, but they never accused her of that, nor did they ever find out. The small stone house Utch was born in – on the bank of a stream that runs through Eichbüchl – connected to a chicken house, which Utch’s mother maintained, and a cow barn, which Utch cleaned every day from the time she was five. The house was full of stolen books; it was actually a religious library, thought Utch remembers it more as an art library. The books were huge poster-sized records of church and cathedral art – sculpture, architecture and stained glass – from sometime before Charlemagne through the late Rococo.

In the early evenings as it was getting dark, Utch would help her mother milk the cows and collect the eggs. The villagers would pay for the milk and eggs with sausage, blankets, cabbages, wood (rarely coal), wine and potatoes.

Fortunately, Eichbüchl was far enough away from Messerschmitt plant and the landing field in Wiener Neustadt to escape most of the bombing. At the end of the war the Allied planes dumped more bombs on that factory and landing field than on any other target in Austria. Utch would lie in the stone house with her mother in the blacked-out night and hear the crump! crump! crump! of the bombs falling in Wiener Neustadt. Sometimes a crippled plane would fly low over the village, and once Haslinger’s apple orchard was bombed in blossom time; the ground under the trees was littered with apple petals thicker than wedding confetti. This happened before the bees had fertilized the flowers, so the fall apple crop was ruined. Frau Haslinger was found hacking at herself with a pruning hook in the cider house, where she had to be restrained for several days – tied up in one of the large, cool apple bins until she came to her senses. During her confinement, she claimed, she was raped by some of the village menfolk, but this was considered a fantasy due to her derangement at the loss of the apple crop.

It was no fantasy when the Russians got to Austria in 1945, when Utch was seven. She was a pretty little girl. Her mother knew that the Russians were awful with women and kind to children, but she didn’t know if they would consider Utch a woman or a child. The Russians came through Hungary and from the north, and they were especially fierce in Wiener Neustadt and its environs because of the Messerschmitt plant and all the high officers of the Luftwaffe they found around there.

Utch’s mother took Utch to the cow barn. There were only eight cows left. Going over to the largest cow, whose head was locked in it milking hitch, she slit the cow’s throat. When it was dead, she unfastened the head from the milking hitch and rolled the cow on her side. She cut open the belly of the cow, pulled out the intestines and carved out the anus, and then made Utch lie down in the cavity between the great cow’s scooped-out ribs. She put as much of the innards back into the cow as would fit, and took the rest outside in the sun where it would draw flies. She closed the slit belly-flaps of the cow around Utch like a curtain; she told Utch she could breathe through the cow’s carved out anus. When the guts that had been left in the sun drew flies, Utch’s mother brought them back inside the cow barn and arranged them over the head of the dead cow. With the flies swarming around her head, the cow looked as if she’d been dead a long time.

Then Utch’s mother spoke to Utch through the asshole of the cow. “Don’t you move or make a sound until someone finds you.” Utch had a long, slim wine bottle filled with chamomile tea and honey, and a straw. She was to sip it when she was thirsty.

“Don’t you move or make a sound until someone finds you,” said Utch’s mother.

Utch lay in the belly of the cow for two days and two nights while the Russians wasted the village of Eichbüchl. They butchered all the other cows in the barn, and they brought some women to the barn too, and they butchered some men in there as well, but they wouldn’t go near the dead cow with Utch inside her because they thought the cow had been dead a long time and her meat was spoiled. The Russians used the barn for a lot of atrocities, but Utch never made a sound or moved in the belly of the cow where her mother had placed her. Even when she ran out of chamomile tea and the cow’s intestines dried and hardened around her – and all the slick viscera clung to her – Utch did not move or make a sound. She heard voices; they were not her language and she did not respond. The voices sounded disgusted. The cow was prodded; the voices groaned. The cow was tugged and dragged; the voices grunted – some voices gagged. And when the cow was lifted – the voices heaved! – Utch slipped out in a sticky mass which landed in the arms of a man with a black-haired mustache and a red star on his grey-green cap. He was Russian. He dropped to his knees with Utch in his arms and appeared to pass out. Other Russians around him took off their caps; they appeared to pray. Someone brought water and washed Utch. Ironically, they were the sort of Russians who were kind to children and in no way thought Utch was a woman; at first, in fact, they thought she was a calf.

Piece by piece, what happened grew clear. Utch’s mother had been raped. (Almost everyone’s mother and daughter had been raped. Almost everyone’s father and son had been killed.) Then one morning a Russian had decided to burn the barn down. Utch’s mother had begged him not to, but she had little bargaining power; she had already been raped. So she had been forced to kill the Russian with a trenching spade, and another Russian had been forced to shoot her.

Piece by piece, the Russians put it together. This must be the child of that woman who didn’t want the barn burned down, and it was because…The Russian who’d caught the slimy Utch in his arms as the putrid cow was thrown up on a truck figured it out. He was an officer, too, a Georgian Russian from the banks of the eely Black Sea; they have queer phrases and lots of slang there. One of them is utch – a cow. I have asked around, and the only explanation is that utch, to various offhanded Georgians, imitates the sound a cow makes when she is calving. And utchka? Why, that is a calf, of course, which is what the Georgian officer called the little girl who was delivered to him from the womb of the cow. And it is natural, now, that a woman in her thirties would no longer be an Utchka, so I call her Utch.

Her real name was Anna Agati Thalhammer, and the Georgian officer, upon hearing the history of Utch’s family in the good village of Eichbüchl, took his Utchka with him to Vienna – a fine city for occupying, with music and painting and theater, and homes for orphans of war.

When I think of how often I told Severin Winter this story, I could break my teeth! Over and over again, I told him he must understand that, above all, Utch is loyal. Patience is a form of loyalty, but he never understood that about her.

“Severin,” I used to day, “she is vulnerable for the same reason that she is strong. Whatever she puts her love in, she will trust. She will wait you out, she will put up with you – forever – if she loves you.

Reading Group Guide

1. How would you describe the significance of the title?

2. Do you consider the narrator of The 158-Pound Marriage to be "reliable"?

3. In The Imaginary Girlfriend, John Irving's memoir of his life as a writer and a wrestler, Irving says that he once had the following Graham Greene quote taped to his desk lamp: "Hatred seems to operate the same glands as love: it even produces the same actions." How would you describe the intersections of love and hate in The 158-Pound Marriage?

4. In introducing his work as a historical novelist, the narrator says, "For history you need a camera with two lenses — the telephoto and the kind of close-up with a fine, penetrating focus. You can forget the wide-angle lens; there is no angle wide enough." How do the narrator's background and perspective as a historical novelist influence his account of this story?

5. The 158-Pound Marriage, like several other John Irving novels, takes place on a New England campus. Do you see the academic setting as incidental or as representative of the novel's mood or themes?

6. We hear a lot about the narrator's conflicted feelings regarding Severin Winter, but much less about the relationship between Edith and Utch. How would you characterize the nature and development of the women's relationship?

7. For all of the coupling and communal activities in the novel, each of the four central characters also spends a great deal of time pursuing solitary activities — from walking at night to writing books. What role does solitude play in the novel?

8. What do you make of Severin Winter's role as a wrestling coach, and of the narrator's attention to it?

9. What kind of metaphors does the novel propose the world of wrestling has for human relationships?

10. In many instances we see the value of protecting others held above the need to save oneself — from Utch's mother hiding her young daughter in the cow to the militaristic surveillance of the Benno Blum Gang. What does the novel suggest about the challenges and virtues of putting our loved ones before ourselves?

11. There is much discussion about whether this marital arrangement is based on sex or not. Do you think there is an answer to this controversy?

12. This novel makes clear that different extramarital relationships affect marriages to different degrees. Why does Audrey Cannon — and her relationship with Severin Winter — play such an important role in The 158-Pound Marriage? What does Audrey Cannon represent to Edith Winter?

13. At one point the narrator refers to Severin Winter as "a firm believer in the past." What role does the past — memories, nostalgia, regret — play in the novel? How do the characters' approaches to the past and to the future differ?

14. The couples' four children are strikingly absent for most of the novel. The narrator says, "I admit my own sense of family suffered from our foursome. I remember the children least of all, and this bothers me." What is the point of making the children such peripheral characters?

15. The narrator makes a number of statements about the relationships between the children and their mothers, including: "I think Severin thought about his mother too much" and "Edith and I were brought up unsure of ourselves as snobs — in love with our mothers' innocence." How are the various mothers in the novel portrayed?

16. What does Fiordiligi and Dorabella's bathtub accident represent for the two families?

17. If you were to write an additional chapter — Chapter 11 — what do you imagine happening to each of the characters and to the two couples?

18. If you have read other John Irving novels, were there any elements of The 158-Pound Marriage that you recognized? How does it compare in tone and scope to his earlier and later work?

19. One way to read The 158-Pound Marriage is as a kind of social experiment in which many of the principles of monogamy and marriage are challenged as a way of shedding new light on the institution of marriage. What are your thoughts about this approach to the novel?

20. Do you think The 158-Pound Marriage has "a moral" or any prescriptive applications?

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Britty on LibraryThing More than 1 year ago
"Can an Unhappy Man Tolerate a Happy Woman?"Take two people that are married. Make them as opposite to one another as you can. now invent another couple and do the same but reverse the genders. Now, involve these couples into a marriage swap where the `likes¿ are linked together. There you have the 158-Pound Marriage. Do opposites attract? Apparently they do¿and they make better marriage partners than ones that have similar interests. Of course, they may not see eye to eye on anything, but isn¿t that what makes marriage interesting?This novel is another example of John Irving¿s showcase of characterization. The narrator never seems to be named but the main character in the book is named Severin Winter (the book says it is pronounced SAY-VER-INbut I contend it is pronounced as it is written). He could be a portrait of the author himself. Short and `bear-like¿, he is a wrestling coach first and a teacher of German language second. He comes from Vienna and has a lot to say about a lot, every though the narrator has him as brooding and moody most of the time.The title of the book refers to how Severin classifies novels into weight classes. The better the book, the higher the weight class. There is also a reference to a classification difference of 1 pound that kept Severin from becoming not only a good wrestler but a great one. You¿re correct, it was 158. And yet another reference to a current wrestler competing for greatness in the weight class of¿you guessed it 158.So what does this have to do with the intersection of these marriages? My guess is that the marriage `becomes¿ a different category when the couples decide to exchange partners on a regular basis. Maybe also because of the weight classification of novels, Severin also considers his own marriage to be in a higher category. It is difficult to tell the summary without making the book sound too risque. Well, it IS at times. But those Irving fans know this is only a lure. The real sadness is waiting for you at the end of the book. I thought it was sad, at least. You may think it¿s tripe.
NicholasPayne on LibraryThing More than 1 year ago
Not among Irving's best, but neither is it a waste of time.
SimoneA on LibraryThing More than 1 year ago
I would not put the book in my Irving top 5, but it still is a good read.
Anonymous More than 1 year ago
Think about what you like about a good book. This has NONE of that. Do not read this even if it is free. Irving must have been losing his mind. Honestly, nothing good to say about this. Unrealistic in every way. Wish i could give zero stars.
rcooper3589 on LibraryThing More than 1 year ago
sad. sexy. there were a lot of aspects to this novel that are touched apon in his other books, but here he just extended on it. i really loved it, even though it was sad.
Anonymous More than 1 year ago
A delight. John Irving does it again. ~*~LEB~*~
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jmd246 More than 1 year ago
I loved this book!
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Guest More than 1 year ago
John Irving has way of showing insight into a person's sexual fantasies and actions. Just like his other novels The 158-Pound Marriage uses humor and reality. I would recommend this novel to anyone with an open mind. This novel shows the hardships of having a marriage while 'swinging.' The constant talk of wrestling started to get on my nerves but it's all good. Overall, this novel was interesting and thought-provoking.
Guest More than 1 year ago
John Irving's shortest novel is a sparse and daring look at the constantly evolving relationship between two partner-swapping couples. Severin Winter is easily one of Irving's most maddening and beguiling characters, and the moments Irving's narrator focuses on him become some of the novel's most powerful and most pretentious. Irving's prose is fiercely streamlined, his typical penchant for absurdist humor sharpened to vitriol; he tries awfully hard to make 'The 158-Pound Marriage' an oblique treatise on the virtues and dangers of an open marriage (the novel's graphic sexual culmination, group sex in a Cape Cod beach house, is more clinical than erotic), and it proves in equal parts resonant and haughty. Its brevity, however, is a virtue.
Guest More than 1 year ago
Wow. Hmmmmmmmmm...what to say. The book is thought-provoking, exciting, vivid, borderline-erotic. I'd recommend it, though not just to anyone..for instance, not to my mother. John is John...and like his other novels, the book is both funny and heartbreaking. A definite must for the Irving fan.
Guest More than 1 year ago
This novel is something else, it's porn with a story line. After reading this novel, I spend two weeks wondering if I should recommend this to those I know, or lock it up in my mind to prevent it from spreading. This piece is truly amazing, and extremely influential. Some notes on the novel: When you read this, you feel like you're reading into one of the stories mentioned in THE WORLD ACCORDING TO GARP. My advice would be to read THE WORLD ACCORDING TO GARP before reading this novel. Marianna.