Second Acts is a guide to reinventing your life. Whether you wish to change careers, move to a more desirable part of the country, start a business, write a novel, or drop everything to pursue a life dream, Stephen Pollan offers a powerful message ofhope and guidance that has benefited his own clients.
Through a series of exercises, you will develop a comprehensive "script" for your second act—a step-by-step action plan that will lead you to the life you've always wanted.
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About the Author
Stephen M Pollan is a New York City-based attorney, financial advisor, and life coach.
Mark Levine has been Stephen Pollan's collaborator for more than eighteen years. Together they have authored numerous books, including the national bestsellers Lifescripts, Live Rich, and Die Broke, and most recently, Second Acts. They have been nominated for three National Magazine Awards.
Read an Excerpt
Fitzgerald was wrong. You can have a Second Act. You can lead the life you've always wished no matter your age or stage in life.
The dream you think has become impossible with advancing age, new obligations, or increased responsibility can be made real. The hope you've been deferring until a time when the stars are in perfect alignment can be fulfilled today. The goal you think out of reach because you've traveled an alternate path is still within your grasp.
You can give up your job as a stockbroker and pursue your youthful dream of becoming a professional photographer.
You can jump off the fast track and have a child, even though you're not married and have no intention of marrying.
You can pack up your family and move from the suburbs to the country, giving up your harried lifestyle for a more idyllic one.
You can leave a deadening retirement behind and go back to college to study art history.
You can give up having a business career and instead stay home to care for your children.
You can launch a business now, despite not having paid the dues the pundits demand.
You have an opportunity, not just to reinvent yourself, but to become your true self; to give expression to your suppressed hopes and dreams; to take the seed you've kept dormant in the dark within you, expose it to warmth and light, and let it burst forth into life.
Almost all of us have buried personal hopes and dreams. In order to please our parents, our friends, our spouses, our teachers, and our employers, we've molded our lives into what we think the outside world wants us to be.
To win and keep our parents' love, we've acted in certain ways and followed certain paths. We've become lawyers because they wanted us to be professionals. We married and had children because they wanted us to give them grandchildren. We lived a certain lifestyle, or lived in a certain place, because we knew it would gain their approval.
To become accepted, first by our friends, and then society at large, we have adopted certain attitudes and behaviors. Children work hard to fit into their peer group, adopting informal uniforms and language and habits that mark them as part of the pack. We never really left that desire to fit in behind as we grew older. We measured ourselves against our friends and peers. A teenager in the suburbs needs a car. A single twenty-something male in the city needs a thin girlfriend. A married thirty-something woman needs a baby. A senior needs successful grandchildren.
We've allowed the outside world to draw up schedules and checklists for us against which we judge our own worth. Haven't gotten married by thirty-five? Hopeless. Not earning $100,000 by forty? Loser. Haven't retired early and moved to the sunbelt? Failure.
Comparing ourselves to these external standards often brings misery and self hatred: Either we despise ourselves for not measuring up, or we despise ourselves for not being true to our own selves.
Good news. There's never been a better time to revolt against external standards and to be true to yourself. We're living in a transitionary time. Society, culture, and the economy are all shifting from the values of the past to new values, not yet fully formed. In this interregnum the old rules have lost most of their power, and new, potentially oppressive external standards haven't yet taken hold. As British Prime Minister Tony Blair has said of our time: "This is a moment to seize. The kaleidoscope has been shaken. The pieces are all in flux. Soon they will settle again. Before they do so, let us reorder this world around us." An opportunity like this doesn't come along in every lifetime. It comes, at most, once a century. We're lucky enough to be alive at this moment when anything is possible, at the moment perfect for Second Acts.
We're also lucky enough to be living in the United States of America. At the risk of sounding jingoistic, America is the land of Second Acts. Throughout our history people have come to these shores for just that purpose. Whether they were fleeing persecution, famine, war, genocide, oppression, or poverty, people from every corner of the world have come to America to reinvent themselves. The streets may not be paved with gold, but this is the land of milk and honey and opportunity. In America, you are not limited by your race, religion, color, gender, size, strength, appearance, language, or sexual orientation. Your only limits are self imposed.
You can have a Second Act. It doesn't matter if you're widowed, seventy years old and living on a fixed income. It doesn't matter if you've two kids in college and thousands of dollars in credit card debt. It doesn't matter if you're a workaholic professional, or a unemployed manager, or a burned out stockbroker, or a harried stay-at-home mom. I have helped all these people launch Second Acts. I can help you too.
Looking to live out a creative dream? We've been socialized to believe creative endeavors must come from the young and struggling. Youthful artistic success gains far more attention than mature work. The dark and dingy loft is thought to be the only place from which inspiration can spring. Yet for every Rimbaud bursting onto and off the scene like a comet, there's a Wallace Stevens. For every Basquiat, there's a Grandma Moses. And, for every Kerouac typing wildly in a railroad flat, there's a Pynchon living comfortably in suburbia. The notion that the youth culture is the only artistic culture is nonsense. Inspiration can be drawn from every stage in life and from every economic circumstance.
What People are Saying About This
“Second Acts teaches how to achieve what others think or say is impossible.”
“Stephen Pollan and Mark Levine show us that it’s never too late to stage a heckuva comeback!”
For anyone looking for motivation, encouragement and help in creating dynamic life changes, this book is a must read.
“Your life need not be the same. You can have a second act, Pollan shows you how.”
“Pollan’s encouragement helped me convert my own fear and uncertainty into optimism and enthusiasm for continued personal growth.”
“Equal parts inspiration and explanation, Second Acts is a road map for the journey to a better life”
SECOND ACTS captures the changed career paths many of us will have; and shares the strategies needed to do it.
Making your life significant during the Second Act can really make a difference for you and the lives of others.
Pollan's own story of how he launched his 'second act" would be enough to get you thinking how you might redefine your life and live your dreams. But he and Levine have put together a volume with much more: practical advice on how you can resurrect and realize your real goals, with inspiring examples of people who have done just that. Well written, easily grasped, brimming with practical advice and helpful exercises. Highly recommended for anyone who wants a more meaningful life, but needs some guidance on how to make it happen.
If you've ever thought "I can't pursue my dreams because I'm too fill-in-the-blank", this book will show you that you can! Unlike Po Bronson's "What Do You Want to Do?", which is nothing more than an overpriced exercise in navel gazing, SECOND ACTS will help you distill your dreams and turn them into reality. This ain't pie in the sky stuff; Pollan and Levine give solid, concrete, easy to understand advice. Especially enjoyable are the stories of famous people who have had "second acts." They're very inspiring. I would recommend this book to anyone.
The team of Pollan and Levine again come up with an easy to read, easy to apply guide to life and how to live it. "Second Acts" can give you the motivation and courage to find out what your own second act could and should be.
If you have always had a dream but did not know how to make it real, this is the book for you. SECOND ACTS is as practical as it is inspiring, as eloquent as it is down-to-earth, and as warm as it is wise.