Promises to Keep: A Novel

Promises to Keep: A Novel

by Jane Green


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New York Times bestselling author Jane Green presents a compelling novel about the love that keeps us together when everything is falling apart.
A successful photographer living in Bedford, New York, Callie Perry adores the settled existence she shares with her handsome husband and two adorable children. But while Callie’s life is practically perfect, her nearest and dearest are having a harder time.
Her best friend Lila is stuck dealing with her dream man’s demanding ex-wife. Her free-spirited sister Steffi is adjusting after leaving her city life for the simplicity of the country. And her divorced parents, Walter and Honor, can barely stand each other.
But when Callie is diagnosed with a recurrence of the cancer she thought she had beaten, everything changes. With their own problems suddenly in perspective, Callie’s family and friends rally to support her during an unforgettable, emotional—and ultimately life-changing year.

Product Details

ISBN-13: 9780452297173
Publisher: Penguin Publishing Group
Publication date: 05/31/2011
Pages: 352
Sales rank: 630,242
Product dimensions: 5.30(w) x 7.90(h) x 0.90(d)
Age Range: 18 Years

About the Author

A former journalist in the UK and a graduate of the International Culinary Center in New York, Jane Green has written many novels (including Jemima J, The Beach House, and, most recently, Falling), most of which have been New York Times bestsellers, and one cookbook, Good Taste. Her novels are published in more than twenty-five languages, and she has over ten million books in print worldwide. She lives in Westport, Connecticut, with her husband and a small army of children and animals.


Westport, Connecticut

Date of Birth:

May 31, 1968

Place of Birth:

London, England


"Managed to drop out of Fine Art Degree at University."

Reading Group Guide

Promises to Keep is about the ties that bind and a circle of people united by love, who are there for one another despite sisterly differences, thirty–year–old grudges, and difficult ex–wives. Here, Jane Green has written a novel from the heart, filled with people she knows and lessons she is grateful to have learned.

Callie Perry seems to have figured it all out. She's a wonderful mother of two, wife of a great guy, friend to many, and big sister settled in Bedford, New York, making a good living as a family photographer. Her free–spirited younger sister, Steffi, finally seems to be settling down a bit herself—at least when she discovers that house sitting a big dog in a country house really can compete with a life of ne'er–do–well rocker boyfriends and cramped Manhattan apartments.

Callie's best friend, Lila, is also riding a wave of good fortune. She's finally met the man of her dreams, Ed, a lovable Brit with a wonderful son from a previous marriage. The only problems: Ed comes with a horrific ex–wife and the desire to have more kids, and Lila had long ago decided that kids weren't in her future. But maybe, for such a special guy…

Honor and Walter are Callie's divorced parents who haven't spoken in thirty years. So Callie and Steffi couldn't be more shocked when they learn the truth of what's really going on between them.

At Callie's birthday celebration, her friends gather around her, and her husband, Reece, gives a toast to Callie's four cancer–free years. But when Callie's headaches start up again with fierce intensity, it's hard not to notice that her usual radiance is gone. She is readmitted to the hospital, and the outlook isn't good. The cancer she fought so hard to beat years before has returned in a rare but deadly form called leptomeningeal carcinomatosis. Everyone receives the news nobody wants to hear: If she's lucky, Callie has one year left to enjoy the wonderful life she created, the life she so deserves.

Based in part on Jane Green's experience with losing her dear friend Heidi to cancer, Promises to Keep is her most personal and powerful novel yet. It is about loving and letting go, but it's also about finding one's authentic self, having courage, and living fully a life filled with love.


Jane Green Warburg has written eleven previous novels as Jane Green, several of which were New York Times bestsellers. A native Londoner, she lives, writes, and cooks in Connecticut with her husband, Ian Warburg, and their blended family of six children.

Q. "Heidi's Story" reveals that this novel emerged from your personal experience of losing one of your best friends to cancer. How did that affect your writing process? Do you consider this novel more autobiographical than other books you've written?

This isn't Heidi's story, although I hope I have captured something of her spirit, nor is it autobiographical. What it is, however, is the most personal book I have ever written, because I wanted it to be a worthy tribute, and I wrote most of it when I was in the depths of grief. I put a little of me in all my characters, and certainly draw upon the themes of my life for inspiration, but the characters are all very much their own people.

Q. Promises to Keep centers on a profoundly emotional journey for Callie and her loved ones. What kind of emotional journey did you go through while writing the book?

I wrote some of the book while Heidi was ill, and we'd talk about it. I'd tell her about the characters, and it felt easy and fun. Then, as Heidi became sicker, I didn't have the emotional reserves to keep writing, and I didn't start again until after she died. I wrote the book, as I write all of them, at the local library, and found myself regularly stopping to bury my head in my hands and sob. It was draining, and cathartic. I needed to write about it to process my feelings, but it didn't make the loss any easier.

Q. The characters in this novel represent a wide range of parenting styles, shaped in part by gender, generation, and socioeconomic status. What observations or reflections do you have about current parenting trends?

I heard someone say recently that they grew up in a time when adults were the boss, and they are now living in a time when children are the boss, so when is it going to be their turn? It made me laugh and has a familiar ring of truth. Parenting, and particularly other people's parenting, tends to bring out the worst in us—never have I experienced more judgment than at the hands of other mothers, particularly of babies. Thankfully I am now older, and wiser, as are my children, and I think we are all doing the best we can. I like to think that I am raising my children to be adults, to exist as good people in the world, to recognize boundaries, to have good manners, and to respect others.

Q. Why did you decide to include recipes at the end of every chapter?

I am a huge foodie and a cook. I gather easy recipes from all over, create my own, and spend my life showing the people I love that I love them by cooking for them. When I started to write about Steffi and found myself including lavish descriptions of the food, it suddenly seemed obvious to include the recipes.

Q. As Lila prepares for Clay's recital, she thinks: "What on earth is she going to wear? Who, more importantly, does she want to be tonight?" [p. 144]. In this and other sections, the book takes up the question of how appearance and image relate to identity. Why is this theme especially important in a book about contemporary women?

Insecurity seems to be the curse of modern times, and too often we use the external as a form of armor, hoping the right stuff will make us feel good enough, will have others recognize us as being good enough. I don't think this applies to all modern women, but living in an affluent community brings with it a level of competition and brings out our worst insecurities.

Q. While you were writing, did you ever consider rewriting Heidi's history by having Callie survive her second fight with cancer? What made you decide that her death was a necessary part of the story?

I had to deal with my own grief, and this was the only way I knew how. And from the beginning, whatever had happened to Heidi, I knew that Callie wasn't going to make it. I wanted to look at grief, at how it changes things, how it brings people together.

Q. What words or images would you offer to someone whose loved one has been diagnosed with cancer?

I have to say that what happens to Callie occurs in less than 1 percent of cancer sufferers. It is extremely rare, and women reading this book should not be worrying that this will happen to them or those they love. Second, I would say that what I learned throughout my journey with my friend was that love is a verb. Anyone can say the words "I love you," but loving someone requires Acts. Of. Love. It is about putting that person first, making time for her, thinking of what you can do for her to make her happy before she has even had a chance to think about what that might be. And do it now. Not tomorrow. Or next week. Today is really all we have.

  • As readers, we get to glimpse the emotional dynamics of several close relationships: Callie and Reece's, Callie and Steffi,'s Ed and Lila's, Honor and Steffi,'s among others. In this way, Promises to Keep reveals various versions of intimacy. Which relationships did you find most intriguing? Which relationship dynamics resonate with your personal experiences?
  • Several characters in this novel grapple with social expectations, trying to balance their authentic selves with what family members and others expect of them. Hoping to be the kind of woman who will be attractive to a handsome Jewish man, Lila "even bought a Goyard bag, except it was from a street vendor in Chinatown and if you look closely you will see it says Coyerd. She didn't think anyone would notice, but when she passed the identikit princesses, she saw their eyes flick disdainfully over the bag, and she knew they knew" [p. 66]. Where else in the book do characters resist or respond to societal expectations?
  • At Callie's birthday party, Reece mentions her struggle with breast cancer four years before, which is when readers first learn of this aspect of her history. By this point in the novel, we already care about Callie and her loved ones. How does knowing about Callie's experience with breast cancer shed new light on her character?
  • Why do you think Jane Green chose the name Honor for Callie and Steffi's mother?
  • Describing Callie getting ready to host her book club, Green writes, "As with so many book clubs, it is less about the book and almost entirely about camaraderie…. Tonight, as with every other Book Club night, the women will dress up, put on makeup, sparkle just a little bit more. Not for their husbands, but for the other women" [p. 36]. How does this description compare with your experience being in a book club?
  • What do the recipes at the end of each chapter add to the novel? Do you like when authors choose to include recipes in novels?
  • Early in her marriage to Walter, Honor "would accompany Mrs. Tollemache on a tour to see how the disadvantaged lived, smiling and shaking gloved hands with those less fortunate, who seemed utterly shell–shocked at the arrival of these perfumed, bejeweled visitors" [p. 179]. Including a detail like "gloved hands" underscores the tensions around class difference. What other details or situations in the book echo this theme?
  • How does the return of Callie's cancer ultimately affect Steffi? Honor? Other characters?
  • "Upstairs, Eliza and Jack are fast asleep in their beds, Eliza with a cashmere sweater of Callie's wrapped around her, which she now refuses to sleep without" [p. 313]. Such small details can be strikingly poignant, even heartbreaking. Do any other sections of the novel stand out to you as especially moving? What coping mechanisms do you rely on to get you through difficult times?
  • As Callie's illness progresses, she begins to talk with her family and friends about death; she requests that they live life for her, that they continue to experience joy even when she cannot. Is this a fair request for Callie to make? Is it possible to live joyfully while grieving a devastating loss?

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