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The Peacemaker: A Biblical Guide to Resolving Personal Conflict / Edition 3

The Peacemaker: A Biblical Guide to Resolving Personal Conflict / Edition 3

by Ken Sande
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Jesus said, "Blessed are the peacemakers." But it often seems like conflict and disagreement are unavoidable. Serious, divisive conflict is everywhere-within families, in the church, and out in the world. And it can seem impossible to overcome its negative force in our lives.

In The Peacemaker, Ken Sande presents a comprehensive and practical theology for conflict resolution designed to bring about not only a cease-fire but also unity and harmony. Sande takes readers beyond resolving conflicts to true, life-changing reconciliation with family members, coworkers, and fellow believers.

Biblically based, The Peacemaker is full of godly wisdom and useful suggestions that are easily applied to any relationship needing reconciliation. Sande's years of experience as an attorney and as president of Peacemaker Ministries will strengthen readers' confidence as they stand in the gap as peacemakers.

Product Details

ISBN-13: 9780801064852
Publisher: Baker Publishing Group
Publication date: 01/01/2004
Edition description: 3rd Edition
Pages: 320
Sales rank: 57,440
Product dimensions: 6.00(w) x 9.00(h) x 0.67(d)

About the Author

Ken Sande is the founder of Peacemaker Ministries, the Institute for Christian Conciliation and Relational Wisdom 360. Trained as an engineer, lawyer and mediator, Ken has conciliated hundreds of family, business, church, and legal conflicts. As president of RW360, he now focuses on teaching people how to "get upstream of conflict" by developing skills that strengthen relationships and reduce conflict in the family, church and workplace. He teaches internationally and is the author of numerous books, articles, and training resources, including The Peacemaker, which has sold over 500,000 copies in seventeen languages. He is a Certified Relational Wisdom Instructor and Conciliator, Emotional Intelligence Certified Instructor (through TalentSmart), and has served as a church elder and as an Editorial Adviser for Christianity Today. He and his wife, Corlette, have married children and a growing number of grandchildren, and love to hike and ski in the mountains near their home in Billings, Montana.

Table of Contents

What's New in the Third Edition?9
Part 1Glorify God17
1.Conflict Provides Opportunities21
2.Live at Peace43
3.Trust in the Lord and Do Good59
Part 2Get the Log Out of Your Eye75
4.Is This Really Worth Fighting Over?79
5.Conflict Starts in the Heart100
6.Confession Brings Freedom117
Part 3Gently Restore139
7.Just between the Two of You143
8.Speak the Truth in Love162
9.Take One or Two Others Along185
Part 4Go and Be Reconciled201
10.Forgive as God Forgave You204
11.Look Also to the Interests of Others225
12.Overcome Evil with Good247
Conclusion: The Peacemaker's Pledge259
Appendix AA Peacemaker's Checklist263
Appendix BAlternative Ways to Resolve Disputes270
Appendix CPrinciples of Restitution276
Appendix DWhen Is It Right to Go to Court?279
Appendix EPeacemaker Ministries287
Appendix FCultivating a Culture of Peace in Your Church289
Index of Topics310
Index of Persons312
Index of Scripture References313

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Peacemaker 3.9 out of 5 based on 0 ratings. 14 reviews.
bsanner on LibraryThing More than 1 year ago
Full of illustrations, scripture, and practical application, The Peacemaker offers the four "G's" of interpersonal reconciliation: Glorify God; Get the long out of your eye; Gently restore; Go and be reconciled. Sande's principles and applications are generally deeply rooted in both scripture and practical experience. However, Sande also enjoys dabbling in prooftexts, false analogies, and ill-reasoned arguments. Sande¿s approach to the contemporary church is often reactionary and his use of scripture reductionistic. In all, Sande provides good principles for resolving personal conflict; to access these jewels, however, one must sift through a good deal of distracting material. C-
Anonymous More than 1 year ago
My comment to The_Persistant_Widow: first of all, there are no words to describe how deeply sorry am I to hear of your situation; The Peacemaker, or any book of this nature is not meant to empower individuals in this way. In this day in age, it is so easy to attack the church. The truth is, many churches (pastors, elders. etc.) are not equipped to handle such matters. It does gladden my heart to hear that you did seek a place that provided the protection you were looking for. ... I have only began reading the book (-actually, I started towards the middle of it because I started the Bible Study class late). I'm not one to read books that are drenched in scripture, but after reading the book for five minutes I had so many thoughts running thru my mind, and I truly look forward to reading the entire book.
Anonymous More than 1 year ago
This book made peace real for me. I can not recommend it highly enough. If you have unhealed hurts, read this slowly, prayerfully and let the Prince of Peace reign in you.
The_Persistent_Widow More than 1 year ago
I had been in verbally and mentally abusive marriage for many years, and as the abuse continued to escalate, I came to my church for help. They recommended Peacemaker mediation in which this book was required reading and the mediation focused on this book's principles. Through the counseling, my husband was empowered and began seriously threatening my life because of it. Matters became much worse for me with this counseling. If you are in an abusive situation, do NOT agree to go to any counseling with the Peacemaker book as it's focus. I fared much better at the local abuse crisis center. At least they took me seriously and offered protection. There is an accurate review of this book at the A Cry For Justice website by Jeff Crippen. Type Peacemaker in the search.
Anonymous More than 1 year ago
What a book! It changed my mind on how I view conflict, and how I will go forward in honoring God in conflict!
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Loved it.
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Guest More than 1 year ago
I can't say enough about this book. I haven't been in any major conflicts, but boy has it changed every part of my life. I relate to people so much better now. If you are a human being and you have any other contact with other humans - read this book! It is amazing how little attention we pay to relationships when we talk about the life of a Christian. The way that we interact with others is an essential part of the Christian walk, which makes Ken Sande's book amazing! It's really life-changing. I've seen God honored through these transformations in my life since the first day I picked up the book to read it. It's really that good. It's worth reading even if you don't like to read much. I read little by little because it's hard for me to read, but the applications this book has is incredible. Plus, it is DOUSED with Scripture.
Guest More than 1 year ago
I have only read two chapters of this book, but my relationships have been transformed already. I can see how Christ interacted with people and how I am so far from that. I deal with conflict horribly, but I can see how Ken's concepts can apply directly to my life. I don't know how anyone could try to develop healthy relationships without this book. It does NOT deny that conflict occurs, but encourages us to step into conflict with a healthy attitude. GREAT BOOK!
Guest More than 1 year ago
This book is an incredible resource and a must-read for every married couple, parent, or anyone struggling with conflict. In my own case - applying the principles learned through Peacemakers was the key ingredient to a complete reconciliation with my ex-wife. In fact, we were remarried after over years of separation and divorce. We give God all credit for the healing in our marriage, but we also recognize that Peacemakers provided the tools and knowledge for the two of us to reconcile. Thank you, Ken Sande, for the marvelous work you are doing.